Coming Together

Okay, so clearly I am not too good about keeping up with this blog thing.  So sorry!  Last I posted was right before Thanksgiving.  We had an excellent holiday with family who came to visit from Maryland.  I was beyond thankful to be surrounded by family because to be honest, it was tough not being home cooking in my kitchen like I had done every year since we built our home in 2008, well built it the first time around :)  The first 3 weeks of December found me traveling for business non-stop--what a marathon!  As exhausting as it was, it was nice to stay so busy instead of fretting about not being home for Christmas.

As odd as this is about to sound, in light of all of the upheaval of our life this year, this has by far been the BEST Christmas celebration we have had in a long time.  Shopping was pretty stress free, more focused on counting our blessings, and our daughter was very excited about Santa coming to visit.  I love that she understands Christmas is the celebration of the birth of Jesus and not just about that guy who lives at the North Pole.  It is very sweet.

Many things have happened at the house in the past month---mainly trim, tile and paint.  We are in the home stretch now, with a target move home date in early February.  Next up is the hardwood floors, then more paint, lights, final touches, etc.  It sounds simple, but I know it is this detail work that can take the longest.

The main challenge in this most recent phase was paint colors.  I seriously think my husband was about to go out of his mind if I asked him to go to Home Depot one more time and get another light gray paint color.  The joke around our house has been to forget 50 Shades of Grey, try 150 shades!  All of this being said, I am so glad we sampled so many colors because the one I was all ready to give the green light on ended up being too beige and not enough gray. 

There still needs to be final coats which will look different, but here are some pics of the progress:

This is our hallway on the first floor and you can tell we are not in the final coat phase yet, but the trim is called Oxford White and the wall color, which is the color throughout most of the house, is called Balboa mist

First Floor Mud Room

Very hard to see in this picture, but we went with a super pale blue for this bathroom.
It is called Breakers.

  

Our Daughter's pink bedroom.
Would never have guessed this color is called Patient White!

This is our Dining Room and the color is called Intellectual Gray.  If we did not have this color in the house before, I would think it looks way too brown (and probably have a minor freak out), but I know it will be much darker after the final coats.

Instead of a back splash behind the sink, per the recommendation of our builder, we had a piece of granite installed. I was hesitant at first, but really glad now that we did it!  The rest of the back splash (to be completed still) is a subway tile that I LOVED at the store---hoping I LOVE it installed :)

I am SO looking forward to moving home and posting pictures of it all put back together again :)

Happenings

Tons of improvement has happened at the house since my last update.  Again, so darn busy and way behind...sorry!  First of all, we have walls again and I have to say, it feels good.  Our addition is complete and the deck is halfway done.  The "bump out" (as we call it), although only about an extra 100 square feet, makes the BIGGEST difference in our kitchen.  In addition to walls, hardwood floors are all in, cabinets are in, the exterior got a fresh coat of paint and trim and tile has been started.  Here are several pictures documenting the progress:

We made a last minute decision to also finish part of our 3rd floor unfinished attic space.  This will be my new office and I am VERY excited about it...can't wait for it to come together!

White subway tile in one of our guest bathrooms

Deck underway

Walls, trim and windows!

French doors leading from our kitchen to our deck

Kitchen cabinets

Other wall of kitchen cabinets

Okay, it is the little things in life.  Our old lazy Susan was plastic and I really wanted a wooden one.  When I opened this cabinet to discover this beauty, I admit, I let out a squeal like a 12 year old at a Justin Bieber concert :)

Madeline running on the deck. 

Madeline's bathroom tile...In love!

Master Bathroom cabinets

Marble Hexagon shower floor---Can you say excited?

Farmhouse sink installed

Third floor bathroom, attic without any remnant of fire and new area outside of bonus room leading to my new office

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Madeline's new bathroom cabinets and tile...might have to move in to her room with her!

We hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday!  If you have read this blog before you know we are looking at this life changing situation as a positive thing and Thanksgiving was a great opportunity to reflect on all of our blessings.  In a way, it is so comforting and peaceful to know with all of this craziness happening, we will still look back on 2012 very fondly and as these details are coming together with our house, it makes us even more excited to go home.

Megan

Renovation

Our addition started and is coming along nicely.  One might think we are putting a pool in the backyard with all of the dirt, but we are adding some extra square feet to our kitchen and a deck.  Here are some pics of the progress:

Backyard AKA Mud Pit :)

Hard to see, but holes six feet deep, filled with concrete

How cute is our little crawl space door?

The start of a floor system!!!

I know, not a lot of space for the amount of mud, but the space will make the biggest difference in our house!  Very excited and will post more pictures as it continues to come together.

On another note, I am having the hardest time selecting the right all over interior gray paint color.  I want a light, warm gray that keeps the place open and airy, is clearly gray but not cold and clinical.  The joke around here is, "50 shades of Gray, try 150 shades!".  Suggestions are welcomed :)

Megan

Slackin'

I have been slacking on writing this blog for a few reasons:

1. I usually only keep my iPad handy versus the laptop and this blog site I don't find very easy with the iPad.
2. Not a lot of noticeable things have been happening at the house, but the progress is coming very soon and we will see major changes in the near future!
3. I am busy!  Our business has been in overdrive (not complaining!) and we have had to spend much of our time staying focused on those things which make money...to pay for all of the budget blowing I am doing :)

So first off, ALL of our personal items have been returned to our rental home.  I thought it sounded like a good idea, but I think I might be regretting the decision.  I might be wrong, but I think I have discovered the name of the game.  These companies that pack up your home, take everything, clean it and bring it back to you are paid by the box.  SO, they pack things in the smallest possible boxes and in some instances you will open a box to discover 1 lonely wicker basket...no joke!  Needless to say, we have a lot of boxes

This the Dining room of our rental...floor to ceiling boxes; all the way deep :)  

We were able to have the tree removed from next door that lighting struck.  To say it was a big relief is an understatement!  I honestly don't know how we could move back in if the tree remained.  The removal process was nerve racking.  They literally hoisted a man up from the ground with a crane as fast as a carnival ride, positioned him over the top of the tree, lowered him into the middle, had him strap a harness around the trunk and whip out a chainsaw.  He cuts the whole top off the tree and the crane lifts it to the street...insane!

Don't know why, but this pic will not save correctly, but you get the point. 

Moving on to the fun stuff!  We have pretty much finalized all of our selections.  Our freestanding pedestal tub is ordered, cabinets are ordered, paint colors are pretty much all selected, tile has been picked (this is what I am referring to about blowing the budget!), farmhouse sink was ordered and arrived in less than 24 hours, all the lights have been purchased, all the towel bars, the toilet paper holders, appliances are done, yeah, pretty much everything.

Our addition is underway and our backyard has a lot of holes in it, but we are really excited about the extra indoor and outdoor living space and think it is going to look great!

Here are a few pics of the tile and granite we have selected for the kitchen:

Backsplash

Chair rail to frame out above the range

Kitchen Granite

I will post pictures in the coming days of the progress with our renovation.  Again, sorry for the time lapse between posts...I'll try not to slack so much!

Megan

Milestones

We have reached a MAJOR milestone--Monday we start to put things back together again.  It has been a long road, close to 2 months since the fire, but we are finally at the point we have been waiting for.  I am excited to post pictures of progress!

Here is a little walk down memory lane:

This is the side of our house that was struck by lightning.  You can see the hole in the siding where it shot right through our house.  The piece of siding flew down the street into our neighbors yard, two house down.  Mother nature is a powerful lady my friends!

This is what it looks like when someone takes your roof off :)  My husband posted this picture on Facebook with the endearing caption, "Going Topless"...too funny!  This picture REALLY puts things in perspective for me.  I can't recall if I have shared this yet or not, but my husband was outside when the lightning hit.  If you look closely you can see the mark down the tree that is there.  The lightning hit the tree, was drawn in by the electrical field of our house and went horizontally across and through our house.  My husband was standing at the grill letting the dogs out before the storm rolled in.  We are so very lucky...this could have been SO much worse!  The tree is mainly on our neighbors property, but they have graciously agreed to let us take it down.  It will be nice to not have that constant reminder there.

 This is the view from the front.  Sorry neighbors for the Port-o-Potty...not attractive.

This is our sweet little girl who is stronger, smarter and braver than she will ever know.  She is wearing a sweater my Mom had made for me when I was little.  when it came back from the dry cleaners she said she wanted to wear it, so on it went.  This face is what happens when you say, "Pose, honey".  She has been AMAZING through this whole ordeal.  She is completely in tune with what is going on and will tell you that our house is being upgraded, we are living at a vacation home and her room is going to be really nice when we move back in.  She will sometimes out of nowhere say, "I want to go home".  I will ask her if she means the vacation house and she will say, "No, our real home."...then she keeps playing.  She will ask for random toys that we no longer own, but she does not fixate on them, so I think we are doing alright :)

I just had to post...random "just because" gift from my wonderful husband who, even when our stress level is through the roof (no pun intended), always reminds me to stop and smell the roses.

Megan

Absence

I have not composed a new post in several weeks because to be frank, not a lot has happened.  We finally had the roof removed and replaced, which I will say was a huge milestone in so many ways--no more fire damaged materials in our house and the official start of the rebuild process!  But, still not very exciting for me yet :)

I never realized how much I loved our house until not living in it.  I also never realized how many of my kitchen gadgets were useful!  Right now we are working with plastic utensils and plastic take-out bowls are definitely being recycled :)

All of our clothes were delivered and the prior weekend was spent going through each box, smelling each item and hoping that my self-proclaimed photographic memory was working and that everything is there.  We have discovered a few of Chris' things missing...where in the weird dry cleaning abyss do these items go exactly?!?  Most of our items are okay, but not great.  Unfortunate for the dry cleaning company, my old Sorority shirts are fine (Go Alpha Xi!), but two of my handbags and some shoes were not so lucky...they are just not designed to withstand chemical based cleaning treatments.  Some of our items have a really strange chemical smell and I have decided I will be donating all of Madeline's clothes and starting over.  I am sure they can be washed and be just fine, but since we are heading into a new season, I would be buying her a fall and winter wardrobe anyway.  I am disappointed to not be able to pass down any cute 18-24 month items to my friends and family.  The smell and feel just makes me a little nervous for sensitive little baby skin!

Most, if not all, of our selections have been made, which is a huge relief for me.  I think I am pretty good at making up my mind and sticking with it, which hopefully will give me some relief in the stress department.  I have so much confidence in our builder that he is going to knock this project out of the park and we will start to have progress galore as soon as we get it officially turned over to him.

We have decided to put an addition on our kitchen and a deck on the back of the house.  I am really excited about it, as it will give us that extra little space I have been craving in our kitchen area and a nice amount of outdoor living space.

We are looking forward to fall for so many reasons and I recognize that it is going to be Halloween and Thanksgiving before we know it.---Here's to hoping we are spending Christmas in our House 2.0 :)

Megan

Overwhelmed

To put it simply, I am overwhelmed in many ways, good and bad.

The Bad:  There are A LOT of decisions to make at all one time and it is very difficult to prioritize what needs the most attention.  The obvious come first--Family, normalcy, our business.  After that, it gets a little hazy.  One of the most frustrating things happened last week.  Two weeks ago we were told that the biggest contingency regarding our roof tear down and replacement was weather.  They still had demo to do, but last week the house was pretty well done and we thought the roof was going to happen.  Unfortunately, other mysterious things became hold ups like quotes not be submitting on time, windows not being ordered--You know, the obvious things that I would think need to happen when working with insurance and the reassembling of the roof.  To add insult to injury, there was not a single drop of rain for five beautiful days straight.  I am not going to lie- everyday last week when this was not happening, I was praying for a down pour to make myself feel better...to no avail.  So, now we are targeting the roof project starting tomorrow morning.  For me this is a light at the end of the tunnel.  As soon as we can get this project turned over to our AMAZING General Contractor, J Scott Builders, we will start to feel the momentum shift and for this lady who is as Type A as it gets, that will be a great feeling!

The Good: We had a fantastic weekend full of decision making (I love making decisions and getting things checked off the list!!!).  On Saturday we went and checked out bathtubs and sinks.  The sales person offered to let us try to get in and out of the freestanding pedestal tub, but to save myself the embarrassment, I passed.  Next on the list- appliances!  We have selected all of our appliances and I am very excited about them.  The best part is our old appliances went up in price, so the replacement cost is going to help us as we finalize this piece.  We also purchased about 75% of our lights--the UPS person is going to get use to this temporary address.  We picked out about 90% of our paint colors and got a few samples from Lowes.  Chris and I spent time at the house today mapping out the addition we intend to put on the house and feel like we have a really good idea of how it will all play out.  Tomorrow all of our old cabinets, lights, doors (pretty much everything) are getting taken away for the Habitat for Humanity resale store.  After that we are going to select new cabinets, then do granite and then lights.  Wednesday is tile.  Again, making decisions makes me feel accomplished :)

In addition to all this fun shopping and decision making, we had a wonderful, rather normally feeling, weekend on top of it.  We had a Saturday night dinner date with one of our favorite couples.  They have a little girl who is a little younger than M and whenever we go out dinner as families it gets crazy...we warn the waiter the minute they greet us at the table!

Today, we woke up and M helped me make waffles, as we always do on Sunday morning.  I do not have very many kitchen utensils at our temporary home, so that was interesting, but we made it work.  We went for a lovely bike ride and I actually made a real home cooked meal tonight.  I had to break down and buy a whisk and a slotted spoon at the grocery store this afternoon in order for it to come together.  All in all, we are overwhelmed right now, but it is because we are in the thick of it.  I am hopeful that a couple of months down the road all the wheels will be turning and we will be seeing our home come back together.    

PSA

So let me start by saying this post is going to make me sound like a doomsday prepper, but I think it is important to share because honestly, who plans for this crap?!?  I thought I would share a few lessons learned thus far that might be helpful and a good reminder to myself when we move back into the house and I am too busy running around trying to get unpacked.

1. I can only speak for North Carolina, but did you know that smoke detectors are only required in conditioned living spaces?  Go take a look around your attic in NC and good luck finding a smoke alarm.  This will be changed during the rebuild!  I am so thankful everyday that if this was going to happen to us that it happened in the early evening.  Had it been in the middle of the night, I don't even want to think about the level of devastation that could have happened.  Once I get around to posting pictures of the interior of home as it is today, you will realize that the fire itself was very contained, mainly just to one side of our attic.  The damage is water and this is why our house is now down to studs :)  I don't even want to think about being woken up in the middle of the night, frantic, disoriented and in pajamas trying to escape a smoke filled house...sorry, not my idea of a good time!

2. This is going to sound crazy, but inventory your house.  If this ever happens you will be SHOCKED to learn that literally EVERYTHING has value.  Today we inventoried our toiletries.  The very nice gentleman from the company that does this literally stood in the garage with a tape recorder reading aloud each bottle of shampoo, lotion and every other little thing we had in there---the make, the function and the number of ounces.  Everything single thing you purchase has a replacement value.  It can make one feel very high maintenance when you are being asked, "what exactly is cuticle remover?"  I have since learned that they make an app for this.  Apparently, you catalogue everything you own by taking pictures of it and then once you have invested the insane amount of time doing that, ever time you bring something new into the home, you add it to the inventory.  I don't think Q-tips necessarily make the list, but you know what I mean.  Again, we are so lucky because most of our things are recognizable.  I can't imagine going through this process if it were all piles of ashes.  Note to self, take the time to do the inventory...if this ever happens again (which I will be so pissed if it does!) this would be the biggest life saver.

3. Do some proactive research.  In the moment of panic when the Fire Marshall is telling you to secure the property by boarding up the windows at 11:00 pm on a Sunday night, you will say yes to the first company who answers the phone.  When that company arrives, thinking they are knights in shining armor, they start to give you the full court press about the road that lies ahead.  If you have never been through this before, and you are like me, you will tell them to get started first thing in the morning and have the whole rebuild planned out by 8:00 am.  It does not work that way.  The number of different companies involved in this are insane!  There is a company to take your clothes and your linens.  There is a company that takes your salvageable goods.  There is a company that evaluates your non-salvageable goods.  There is a company that starts to demo your house...and the list goes on.  The number of business cards we received in the first 24 hours was nuts.  If you ever have to go through this situation, wouldn't be nice to have a vetted referral to call?

4.  Lastly, know that stuff is just stuff and really dedicate yourself to making memories instead of collecting things.  Memories you have of people do not live in the stuff you have.  We lost some things in the attic that meant nothing to us and other things that meant a lot.  For instance, all of Chris' Mom's blankets she knitted over the years, Madeline's crib, baby clothes and my Grandmother's beautiful  dresser.  Yes, some things you can never replace, but as sad as it was to watch those items be thrown into a dumpster in our front yard, it has not changed a single memory.  I would give up that dresser any day of the week to have just one more conversation with my Grandmother.

Progress

We went over to the house today (like we do everyday, who am I kidding!) and the amount of progress they have made is UNREAL.  Almost every wall on every floor is gone, all of our kitchen cabinets are sitting in the middle of our kitchen and our garage is a graveyard of granite counter tops.  The next big step, which we should get more clarity on tomorrow, is ripping out the hardwoods and starting to remove the roof.  As some of you know, last winter we had hardwood floors installed on our second floor and the first floor sanded and refinished to a dark stain throughout the house.  I LOVED our floors, but I know they will be just as nice when we move back in.

Back to the roof--So basically in a nut shell once this is done you will stand on our second floor and see nothing but sky.  Personally, I can't wait for this day.  Once this day arrives that means we are starting the journey forward versus the tear down road we are currently on.  I am so excited for the process of rebuilding this house that my Pinterest boards are on fire (no pun intended!).

Here are some photos to some ideas I have...would love and welcome opinions :)

I am sort of in love with this refrigerator, but if I saw correctly it is a 14K price tag...that might be pushing it :)

LOVE LOVE LOVE the Pedestal Soaking Tub...I think I might throw caution to the wind on this one!

We are sticking with the white cabinets we had before, but are enlarging the kitchen, which will require a larger island.  I think I am digging the different color island idea

I like this light and I am thinking two of these over the kitchen island.  We previously had two glass lights Urn style pendants from Pottery Barn---great lights, but to clean them required two people and the patience of saints!

I am sort of in love with herringbone floors...I am thinking Laundry Room and then Chris says, "Megan, it is a Laundry Room!"  Can someone remind him that we did have a crystal chandelier and two poster sized photos of Madeline in the laundry room?!?

I love this wallpaper and they make it in a color called Alabaster which is really subtle.  I intended to do this before all of this happened, so I think now might be the time :)

I am sure there will be MANY more ideas floating around over the next couple of months.

Let the fun begin!

Rebuilding Phase 1

I am not going to lie, when I walked in and looked up from the bottom stair case to the second floor to see only framing, I was shocked.  The picture above is from our Master Bathroom and behind it was Madeline's playroom.  The amount of damage to our home is unreal and something I would not wish upon anyone.  I wish I could really find the words to put around it, but I am hopeful that as this process sorts itself out, I will find the exact descriptions for the feelings--the fear of hearing your house is on fire and scrambling to run out, the stress of trying to piece your life together in 48 hours to create normalcy and routine, the relief that things are not worse, and the excitement as you think of rebuilding and making it great again.

This whole process has made me realize how much I LOVE our house.  Chris says that I am always looking for what is next, but this situation has made me look at our house in a whole new way.  This is our home and this is where Madeline will grow up and where all of her memories will be based from when she looks back on her childhood.

I am oddly excited about the rebuilding process.  I almost think I have to be.  If I look at this as a hassle, the next 6 months will be even more difficult.  I truly believe that when things happen that are so out of your control like this, you have to embrace it, shake the dust off and move forward.  Why even look back and wonder, "Why did this happen to me?"  It is not worth the mental energy because trust me, you will need the mental energy for so many other things.

That being said, there is totally a business idea here hidden in all of this.  There are SO many moving parts in this process--securing the home, damage removal, dry cleaning, inventory of goods, pack out, insurance investigations, attorneys, etc.  That does not even include the rebuilding.  And, layer on top of that, the insurance company reminds you that YOU are the Project Manager and are responsible for every contractor that you choose to engage on the job, they just cut the check.  There really should be a consulting service who manages this for you...the sheer number of phone calls in a given day is incredible!

I have started to make my list of changes we will be making to the home:

1. We use to have an off white trim---I think we are going to go back to white trim (not 100% sure yet), but the off white was a little limiting with paint color choices 
2. Lighting fixtures- I am super excited about this for some reason and can't wait to make choices!
3. Our walls (other than the ones we painted) were all builder beige...I see a light grey in our future
4. 3 words--Freestanding Soaking Tub

I know the list will grow, as it always does.  

Inventory

Yesterday was a long day for sure.  We started at 8:30 am and powered through the whole day to inventory all of our definitive unsalvageable goods.  The fire was contained so well in our attic that most of these items where either things that we were planning on selling in the next yard sale (I always talked about doing a yard sale and my husband always said no way was he lugging that stuff down from the attic) or were sentimental items, but did not have a set spot in our home.  It was pretty amazing to look at how much stuff we keep and think about why we kept it.  There was a lot of stuff from my husband's Mom who passed away several years ago--yarn, Christmas decorations, coffee mugs, etc.  I had journals that I kept in high school and art supplies from elementary school (who needs that?!?).


It was hot--REALLY hot--yesterday and we worked until it was all done.  We filled a dumpster and still have a huge pile of stuff to throw away once they empty it.  I just keep telling myself that it can all be replaced and this was not stuff we looked at everyday anyway.  The memories you have of people or times in your life are forever in your mind and don't live in the possessions.  


They started the demo process yesterday and most of our second floor is down to the frame.  At first glance it was shocking to see, but at the same time it is the beginning of getting through this process.  I can't wait for the rebuild to start so I can feel like we are moving in a positive direction!


Megan

Sunday Night

On July 22, 2012 around 7:00 pm my husband was outside in the backyard with our dogs.  It was obvious a storm was rolling in and he wanted to make sure they could "do their thing" before it started to down pour.  I was reading an article on my iPad and our 2 year old was playing in the family room.  All of sudden, there was a huge crack of lighting and in that moment I vividly remember seeing what seemed like the whole sky turning orange.  I sprung out of my chair as my husband was running into the house.  We went out front, along with the rest of our neighbors, to see happened.  As we stepped on our front porch we noticed tree bark everywhere from a large, old tree that sits in our neighbors yard, right on our property line.  All of the neighbors were out on their front porches to see what happened and we were chit chatting about what we suspected happened.  At that moment in time, I assumed the tree was hit be lighting.  We went back inside and I called my Mom and Dad who live very close by and told them about it.  We went back outside to make sure the tree was still standing.  I started to smell smoke, but thought it was the residual from the tree.  Then I started thinking...the tree was not on fire and it was not cracked in half...perhaps the lighting just mysteriously went into the ground (wishful thinking).  Our neighbor who owns the tree arrived home and my husband went to tell him about it.  He discovered that his garage door was not working and we thought everyone on the street lost power.  I went back in the house to discover that some lights worked and others did not.  My husband made his way to our garage to check our breakers.


Then everything changed.


I was standing at the front door with our daughter in arm as a neighbor comes running up to the front of the house.  I immediately open the door to let him know we have power and then I realize he is yelling, "Your house is on fire! Get out, Get out!"  I run down the hall, still holding my little girl of course, and tell my husband we need to get out.  He grabs the dogs, we run out of the house toward the street, turn around and see gray smoke billowing out of the top of our house.  We went over to our neighbors front porch as we were waiting for the Fire Department to arrive.  I have never seen a house fire before, but I just kept waiting for the flames to shoot out of the roof and the whole thing to crumble to the ground.  Luckily, it did not.  Due to the AMAZING efforts of our local fire department, they were able to contain it to the attic space in which it started.  As the long night continued, we had an opportunity to go into our house to see the damage.  We were shocked!  Their was so much water pumped into our home that the paint on the first floor was already starting to peel off.  Our large, glass pendant lights over our kitchen island fell out of the ceiling due to water.  The intensity of the heat inside the house was unreal.  As we eventually made our way up to the 3rd floor (which is part attic, part bonus room), we saw the worst of the damage.  Everything was black and the smell was intense.  You could see every single nail in the walls.  I then knew this was going to be the beginning of a long and arduous process.  But, I am up for the challenge!


The next day, once daylight hit, we had a chance to walk the home again.  Let me tell you, things get worse when you shed some light on the subject!  In the past few days our life has been turned upside down.  We have moved in with family, rented a home for 6 months while we rebuild, have had to secure a temporary location for our business that was run out of house, have had all of our stuff (literally everything) either thrown away or removed for cleaning, received so many phone calls from people in the process and have learned that the damage from smoke and water is so much that our house will be stripped down to the frame. 


We have received an INCREDIBLE amount of support from friends and the community.  I have received messages on Facebook from neighbors I have yet to meet in person.  One very good friend wrote me the sweetest email and mentioned that God says beauty comes from ashes, which I thought was very fitting for the situation and frankly, her email was the inspiration for this blog.  (She is a fantastic blogger over at Rare and Beautiful Treasures)


I loved our house.  We built it.  We made every decision on every detail in the home.  But now, we start over.  I am determined to find the fun and excitement in this process!  I have heard that a person's character is not defined by the way they are on their best days, but by the way they are on their worst.  This has already been a life affirming and changing event for us and I know I would not be given more than I can handle.  I am up for the challenge and I know there will be bumps along the road.  I thought it would be interesting to document the journey and look back on this some day with the fond memories of the process and experience.  We are so grateful that no one was hurt and have realized that when things like this happen, you have to really stop and think about what is important.  Take the time to hold hands, hug each other and partner together to make the best of the situation.


Megan